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June 1, 2011 at 3:57 am · Reply
I’ve been thinking A LOT about all of this stuff in the last months and i agree with most of the stuff here, i’m really grateful for reading this as sometimes i started feeling like i was going mad for thinking in such a totally different way than most men in my social circle (and even society in general) think. I really do believe now that it all boils down to starting really being yourself (like a poster above said), doing what you feel like doing, saying what you feel like saying. To really grow you must come in touch with your real emotions and that is a very hard process as i believe that a necessary step is dealing with a lot of emotional baggage (maybe not everything but most of it), stuff that emotionally scared you in adolescence and maybe even in childhood that at first sight might not even be so important. In perspective i think that this is the REAL self-help.
And thank you for this blog, really, its amazing because of posts like these, it’s real

Leo
June 1, 2011 at 6:28 pm · Reply
If seduction is AN EMOTIONAL PROCESS why physical escalation is so encouraged in the community? I know you have to avoid the friend zone ASAP but sometimes escalating aggressevily has back fired to me. In some cases I can tell that women wnat me to get to know them better little by little and when I escalate aggressively they get disapointed and run away. In other cases being aggressive has helped me a lot. I think it boils down to calibration, testing the waters, knowing when to advance and when you have to back up, but keeping the interaction going forward.

Ethan
June 1, 2011 at 6:53 pm · Reply
As has been mentioned here above, physically escalating IS making yourself vulnerable. Do you ever feel sparks or adrenaline as you begin to make a move on a woman? Those are feelings of putting yourself out there, defenseless. There’s a number of reasons why a girl will “reject” your advances but you have to remember empathy is a two-way street. If you aren’t reading her emotions (or don’t care) then there’s a big miscommunication between you two and she will flee. The reason I might personally slow down the physical aggression is if I can’t read her emotions correctly. In laymen’s terms, I’m not reading her signals and pushing further is risky enough to make her leave.